It has been said over and over that leaving your home is not an easy thing to do. And in most cases, that is a sad fact. This is even more so the case if it is your first time and you are leaving your childhood home. The shock caused by this is potentially terrifying. How people cope with it varies largely from situation to situation. Firstly, it all depends on the reason why you have to move away. Then, you have to think about the potential consequences of the move and what they may mean for your future. Luckily, there are ways to prepare for moving out of your parents’ home and we have prepared a list of them for you.
It is all in your head!
When making important decisions it is very important that your mind is on its 100% capacity. Now, when going through something as potentially stressful as a move, it is hard to keep your focus sometimes. Whether it is a professional military move, or you are going to college, or it is something else, you need to clear your head properly and prepare it for moving out of your parents’ home. How do you do that? Putting things in perspective is what it is all about. Firstly, whatever the reason for the move, the fact is that the move is happening. So, being nostalgic or sad is perfectly fine, as long as it is not stopping you from moving forward.
Whatever you may be feeling like at the moment, it is important to be aware of the fact that it will all pass. The world will keep on turning long after your move is complete. In six months you are going to be able to look back and smile with pride. In six months, you will have already settled wherever you are going to move, and the moving process you had to go through will be just a distant memory of something that may have been arduous, and yet you still pushed through it. You simply have to acknowledge the fact that things will be challenging for a time, but that it also won’t last forever and that you will push through. Having this kind of mindset of expecting troubles and being ready for them will lead to you facing them a lot more calmly.
Are you financially capable of living alone?
Before you actually go through with moving out of your parents’ home, you need to make sure that you are capable of taking care of yourself financially. You need to plan your budget carefully, as this is probably the most important element of living alone and also one of the chief things people stress about when moving. So, you need to ask around how much the utilities, food, and rent are going to cost. Transportation costs are also something to consider. It is also a really smart idea to make an emergency fund. You never know when you can get sick and find yourself in need of medicine. This alone can break your budget, so having an emergency fund is really important.
Where are you going to live after moving out of your parents’ home?
Depending on the reason for your move, different options may be viable. If you are moving because of your college, for instance, then you may find a spot for yourself in the college dormitories. However, if you are going to be looking for your own place, there are important decisions to make. The first one is where are you going to live? A thing that could be helpful here is making a list or two. Well, three (or more) actually.
On the first one, you should put the most important traits you are looking for in a home such as being close to your college and/or job. Then, on the second one you can put things that are still important to you, but a bit less so such as having a spare bedroom, for instance, or being in a particular part of the city. On the third one write the “extra things” that you want such as the apartment being close to a pub, or the apartment being on the sunny side of the building.
Are you going to be living with a roommate?
This is another very important decision, as it can have a major impact on your life. As is with all things in life, living with a roommate can have advantages and disadvantages both:
- The advantages are great – Firstly, you are going to share the rent and other expenses with them, which is great, especially since this is your first time living on your own. Secondly, you are not going to be alone. When people start living out on their own for the first time, feeling down is a normal thing. You lived your whole life with someone, and being all alone all day all of a sudden is not easy. Having a roommate can really help you out a lot during this adjusting period.
- The disadvantages can be really bad – First of all, sharing the rent can be really good, especially when moving out of your parents’ home, but what happens if your roommate is always late with their part of the rent? Or if they are consciously using you? This can become a really big problem, really quickly. Next, what if you simply do not “click”? Before you decide to live with a roommate, make sure that you have properly checked them out and really talked with them before you jump in a roommate situation.
Hiring a good moving company is very important
Picking one of the many moving and storage companies is one of the steps to undertake when preparing for moving out of your parents’ home. You are already going to be going through so much, and you do not need to bother yourself with how each box is going to be taken out. The movers are here to help with the move, as that is their job. So, do not think twice about whether that is a good idea. Paying for having all of your things taken care of is a really stress-relieving thing, and you are going to need those as you move out of your childhood home.